Change Your Behaviour by Getting Clear on What You Want

Question: How can we truly change our behaviour?

If we keep repeating the same actions, how can we expect different results?

It’s a tough question, but one worth asking. Often, we accept certain parts of ourselves as unchangeable. We tell ourselves, “This is just who I am,” or “That dream is out of reach now.” Whether it’s ongoing financial struggles, repeated relationship missteps, frustrations at work, or the fear of speaking up—we might accept these patterns as permanent.

But should we?

If you can identify an area in your life that consistently frustrates you—a fear, a weak spot, a place where you underperform—chances are you’re stuck in a cycle.

And the only way to break free? Doing things differently.

Let’s be real: trying something new as an adult is tough. It feels awkward, uncomfortable, even humiliating. Learning puts us back in the shoes of the beginner, making us feel like the student, the rookie, the one who doesn’t know it all.

But growth doesn’t come without learning, and learning doesn’t come without discomfort.

If we want to grow, we have to endure the discomfort of stepping into the unknown. The old way failed, so now it’s time to embrace a new approach. With practice, we master new habits, new skills, and new successes.

To make this transformation, you need one essential thing: clarity. What do you really want?

If your desire is clear, it becomes your compass. Your job is simply to take steps in that direction—even if it feels difficult or unfamiliar.

If you’re here, chances are you’re looking to improve your English-speaking skills—whether for work, public speaking, or social situations. Maybe you’ve tried before and didn’t see the results you wanted. That’s okay! It’s not about giving up; it’s about trying a different approach.

I’ve spent years helping people like you gain confidence, fluency, and clarity in speaking English. My Speaking Pro course is designed to make this transformation achievable, even if you’ve struggled in the past.

This self-paced course is the perfect companion to private or group coaching and includes:

• Pronunciation mastery
• Vocal techniques to captivate your audience
• Essential presentation skills

Key Features:

• Unique Tasks:
  • Prepare a self-introduction
  • Deliver structured talks
  • Practice reading aloud
  • Perform poetry for vocal and emotional impact
• Self-Evaluation & Feedback: Submit recordings of your tasks for personalised feedback to refine your skills.
• Certification: Receive proof of your achievements upon completing the course.

I’m thrilled to announce the live group Speaking Pro course is starting in January 2025. Over three months, you’ll join weekly live classes, take on transformative tasks, and move closer to becoming the confident speaker you aspire to be.

Space is limited, so get your place secured today!